Your relationship, finally understood.
myArby is an AI relationship confidant — trained on your actual conversations, not generic advice. It sees the patterns you can't. It won't take sides. And it's there whenever you need it.
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What is myArby?
A confidant who speaks your language, literally
Not generic advice. Yours.
Arby isn't drawing from a library of relationship clichés. It has read your actual messages — your real words, your real silences, your real history together. Every observation it offers is grounded in what actually happened between the two of you.
Think of it as a wise, honest friend who has done their homework. Not an algorithm merely responding to your prompts. Not a therapist diagnosing you. A thoughtful presence that helps you see what you're too close to see on your own.

Arby is an advisor and confidant — not a licensed therapist. It offers empathic perspective and personalized, not clinical treatment.
How It Works
As easy as talking to a friend.
No technical knowledge needed.
Getting started with myArby is as easy as texting with a friend — as it should be.
Share your conversations
Export a WhatsApp conversation and upload it to Arby. The process takes about a minute. No live account linking, no permissions — just a relationship you choose to share.
Arby learns your patterns
Arby maps your communication rhythms, recurring tensions, moments of warmth and repair. It builds a nuanced picture of your relationship — not a score, not a verdict. A portrait.
The conversation begins
Ask anything. Explore a pattern that keeps resurfacing. Process something that just happened. Arby responds with the specificity that only comes from knowing your actual story.
Dive deeper into Arby's analysis
Read detailed profiles generated from Arby's analysis.
Three Modes
With you, in your words, wherever you are
Arby meets you in three different kinds of moments — each requiring something different from a confidant.
Reflect — The long view
"We keep having the same fight. Why does it always end this way?"
When you want to understand a recurring pattern, a long arc, or simply why things feel the way they do. Arby looks back through your history and offers something you couldn't have seen from inside it.
Arby: "Looking at six months of exchanges, this conflict tends to begin when one of you makes a bid for reassurance — often subtly — and the other responds with problem-solving instead of acknowledgment. It's not a character flaw in either of you. It's a mismatch in what comfort looks like."
Navigate — Right now
"I have a hard conversation tonight and I don't know how to start it."
When you're in the middle of something. A message just landed and you don't know how to respond. A conversation needs to happen tonight. Arby brings context to the moment without telling you what to do.
Arby: "Based on how past conversations like this have gone, leading with your own feeling — rather than the thing they did — tends to open more space. The goal tonight doesn't have to be resolution. It can just be to be heard."
Decode — Close reading
"Can you tell me what's really going on in this exchange?"
Paste in a specific snippet. Arby gives you a close reading — what was said, what was left unsaid, and what the emotional undercurrent was carrying that words never quite reached.
Arby: "On the surface this looks like a disagreement about logistics. But the 'fine, whatever' at the end reads as withdrawal rather than agreement — and in your previous exchanges, that phrase has reliably preceded a longer silence. Worth noting."
Privacy
Your conversations belong to you. Fully.
You're sharing the most intimate record of your relationship that exists. We don't take that lightly, and we don't dress it up in reassurance theater. Here is simply what's true:
Encrypted end-to-end
Your data is encrypted in transit and at rest. No one at myArby reads your conversations.
Delete anytime, completely
Your data is yours. Delete it whenever you want — no friction, no dark patterns, no waiting period.
Never used for training
Your conversations are never used to train AI models — ours or anyone else's. Not now, not ever.
Understanding your relationship takes courage.
You don't have to have it figured out before you begin. Arby isn't there to judge, diagnose, or fix. It's there to help you see more clearly — so that whatever you decide, you're deciding from a place of understanding, not confusion.
Arby is ready when you are, to meet you where you are.
myArby — your AI Relationship Buddy.
Not a licensed therapist. A thoughtful, honest, empathic presence personalized to your actual story.
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